Hey we know its not easy for a lot of guys out there on the dating scene. The world is full of perfectly decent men who just can't seem to get a girlfriend. Men who deserve to get a girlfriend are shaking their heads and contemplating life in a monastery! Lord knows they've tried, and failed, numerous times to get the girl of their dreams... OK maybe just any girl... or they've frozen themselves into total inaction at the thought of approaching and being rejected by that strange species named 'Woman'.
Yes guys, women are somewhat complicated, difficult to read, hard to please, sometimes high maintenance... but god, don't you love em! The thing is, with the right knowledge, knowing the right techniques, all you guys who want to get a girlfriend but can't... CAN!
So, here's 5 crucial tips to get you thinking, and maybe a bit revved up and motivated to give it another try, and dive in to that great big beautiful world of women.
1. Before you even think about how to get a girlfriend or go looking for a girlfriend, you need to look at YOU. Give yourself a good hard, honest once over. Are you boyfriend material? Would you date you, the way you are? If you answered, truthfully, yes, then good for you, you are already girlfriend material, you can skip the rest of this! For the rest of you not quite so datable yet guys, here's some of the things about yourself you need to consider before finding that soon to be girlfriend.
2. Are you engaged with the world around you? You need to be. You need to be someone who takes a full and active part in stuff. It doesn't have to be a lot of stuff, but choose something you're interested in and become involved. No woman is interested in a guy who has a pathetic, empty life. They want someone who is enthusiastic about...something, anything... and has an opinion, something interesting to talk about and knows how to communicate with them.
3. It's also important for your sense of self-esteem, that you are engaged with the world around you, that you have a group of friends, life goals, an interest or hobby. Women are interested in men who have a good, positive sense of themselves and have a life that has some meaning. You won't be stuck for something to talk about with a potential girlfriend if your life is one that you enjoy living.
4. Ok, listen I'm not your mom, but hey, thought I'd better add this in - this is a biggie with women - Personal Hygiene Any decent, proper woman can't stand a guy who is not clean and tidy. Make sure you present yourself as well as you can. It cost a lot to have a reasonable haircut, wrinkle free clothes, a nice body odour etc.
5. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. Don't make out you're wealthy when you live from paycheck to paycheck, don't tell stories about all the amazing adventures you've had travelling the globe, when the truth is you've never left the country. A woman doesn't need to be impressed by a bunch of trying-to-impress-them stories. Women, good women, can be more impressed by the little but important things. Your caring attitude, the way you smile at her,do things for her, the healthy relationships you have with your family and friends.
So guys, if you are serious about getting a girlfriend, about learning how to get a girlfriend, or want to have a kick-A** dating life, just try to be yourself, work on ways to improve yourself, but keep it real, and make sure that the 'yourself' is a real, genuine, caring, engaged with your world, kind of guy.
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